Maybe it’s because the cups are just so darn cute. Maybe it’s because they make kids feel so grown up. Reasoning aside, kids simply love tea parties.

I vividly remember one of my first childhood tea parties. I sat at a plastic pint-sized table surrounded by my stuffed animal friends–come to think of it, that was a pretty ugly table. It would probably pass for “retro chic” today, given the big gaudy flowers displayed all over it. Table and all, I remember those tea parties.
My preschooler really digs tea parties now. She loves her tea set, especially when I fill the tiny serving pitcher with chocolate milk. She absolutely loves to fill (and refill) her own cup.
Tea parties unleash her imagination. I love hearing my preschooler engage in full conversations with her imaginary friends, stuffed animals, and dolls. I can only hope she looks back on her childhood and remembers her tea parties, like I do mine. Maybe she’ll even remember her table–minus the flowers.
Want to encourage your child’s imagination through a tea party? Here are five simple things you can do to make a tea party super special.
1. Invite a friend to the party. Tea parties are even more special when a ”real” friend joins in the fun. Even if that friend is mommy or daddy.
2. Give your child her own special tea set. While ordinary dishes will do, there is nothing quite like a miniature child-sized set.
3. Dress up. Encourage your child to dress up for tea! What a perfect occasion to wear dress-up clothes, costume jewelry, fun scarves or mommy’s heels (okay, maybe the not-too-high ones).
4. Get fancy. For a “formal” tea party, make tea time invitations with your child and send them to guests (bonus feature: what child doesn’t love to send and receive mail?).
5. Serve treats. Tea parties are fun with imaginary tea and snacks, but even better with the real thing. Consider chocolate milk or another special drink as a “tea” substitute. Consider mini cupcakes or mini cookies as a snack.
Most importantly, don’t forget the camera! You’ll definitely want to preserve those tea party moments!
Does your little one like tea parties? What have you done to make them even more memorable for your child?